Shauna Controlla Opens Up About Domestic Abuse – Reveals Bad Treatment From Babyfather And Her Own Mom

Image result for Shauna ControllaIn 2015, while at the heights of their relationship, Shauna Controlla and Gully Bop were involved in a fight which consumed social media.At the time, Bop used Instagram to reveal wounds inflicted on him by his estranged spouse, using what he revealed was a padlock.The Controlla Boss, who was going by the moniker ‘Shauna Chyn’ back then, admitted to using the padlock to defend herself against Bop.She claimed the deejay became violent and she had no choice. The physical encounter was widely reported, but one thing that remained secret until now was why the entertainer felt threatened.In an interview with THE WEEKEND STAR recently, the Control Button singer said having experienced domestic abuse in a past relationship years ago, she vowed never to let another man put his hands on her.”He (Bop) was intoxicated and he attacked me and I had to just take action.

When someone is attacking me, anything weh deh near me, a it me a go go fah, and that was the padlock. Nuff people never understand why I did what I did. There’s history there,” she said, tearing up as she recounted the tumultuous relationship with her son’s father. “Chu me always want fi go higher and higher inna life, him (her son’s father) never want that, so we never get along. My babyfather was abusive. He believed that (beating) was what they call love. Me did affi leave. That’s why me always a defend mi self and me would suggest to women, always fight back.

Anything weh deh near yuh, use it!”Shauna explained that because of abusive relationships, many women have a misconception of love, and she was one of them.”A me run into him arms, so me couldn’t blame nobody else but mi self. Me decide to get out, so if yuh wah stay inna dat relationship, a your decision dat. If yuh want man beat yuh and your father never beat yuh yet, a your issue dat,” she said. “Weh me learn from my experiences is dat yuh affi teach someone how to treat yuh. The way how yuh treat a person, is how dem fi treat you back; but nuff no recognise dat, so yuh affi show dem.”The entertainer believes she fell into an abusive relationship because of issues she was having with her mother.

Image result for Shauna ControllaShe revealed that as a child, she would often be beaten as a form of discipline.”I had a mother who was abusive, so fi a man a come do dat me now, me a go fight back. When a woman go through an abusive childhood, dem always run to man for comfort and fi dat man turn round and be the same thing, dat ruff,” she said.

“My mother used to beat fi everything. If she say wash the plate dem and me say me a sweep the house first, one pot inna me head. When yuh nah get no comfort at your home, weh yuh supposed to get from yuh mother and yuh father, yuh end up look it a road.”She said that because of her experiences, she does not beat her son.”Beating just make yuh fool-fool and wah run weh and do foolishness, and nuff parents nuh recognise dat. It nuh make no sense yuh beat kids. Just take away certain opportunities, things weh dem like; it works,” she said.

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